Coaching
Relationship Makeover
Has sex become routine or a chore?
Do you cringe when your partner touches you or have you stopped initiating sex after being rejected one too many times?
Has parenthood caused you to put everyone’s needs before your own and feel resentful? Book a Consultation.
Conscious Dating
Are you a shy single? Do you struggle with confidence and want to be more better at dating so you can magnetize your dream partner? Do you feel the clock ticking?
Would you like to figure out what keeps going wrong in your relationships before you get back in the dating pool?
Do want to fix your sex and communication issues before your next failed relationship? I can help! Book a Consultation.
Emotional Liberation
Want to fully to fully surrender and be totally free and wild during sex? Are you constantly feeling anxious, angry, sad, stressed, exhausted, bored?
Want to reignite your pilot light so you feel more alive and fulfilled? You’ve come to the right place! Book a Consultation
About Dr. Renée
Do your relationships and your life feel satisfying, fulfilling and aligned, especially your relationship to yourself?
Are you feeling eager and excited as you begin each new day?
Do you feel so grateful thinking about the amazing life you’ve created that you get a little teared up?
If you are like most people I talk to, the answer to at least one of those questions is no, or perhaps a resounding HELL NO!
We all want to live our best lives, full of excitement, passion, purpose, joy, intimacy, pleasure, fun. The how can be elusive. There are not a lot of great resources around that help us create the kind of lives we wish to have.
But, fear not….
I am here for just that reason. You’ve come to the right place. I’ve got you. I get you.
The Truth is we are all capable of having whatever we desire. We’ve all heard that a million times. The problem is we also have a lot of resistance or outdated beliefs working in an equal and opposite direction to our desires. That’s the sticky stuff, and it can’t be removed by simply talking about it, creating a vision board, reciting affirmations, attending a seminar, conventional therapy or whatever else you’ve probably tried. I know because I’ve been there myself.
I’ve unwound much of my own resistance and that stuff is worse than gum or poo on the bottom of your shoe. But it can be cleaned up with the right tools and some dedication.
Society tells us that a good life is for a lucky few, but out of reach for the majority of us. It’s hard to get, or we don’t deserve it.
Maybe I’m crazy, but I believe a good life is possible for everyone. It takes feeling safe enough to be truly authentic and vulnerable and unwinding the cult-ural conditioning you’ve absorbed. It takes updating your programming to align with what you want, so you can thrive.
Guess what?
I have just the right tools for that. Tools that go deep into the heavily programmed parts of your nervous system in the brain and body that are keeping you feeling stuck and keeping you from exquisite pleasure and abundant joy that is your birthright.
I help my clients gain mastery of their sexual experiences so they are able to relax, surrender and enjoy sex much more. Yes, that means more orgasms! I help people achieve a greater sense of aliveness, joy, deeper intimate connection and better communication with their partners. I help people feel more empowered, free and like they are in the driver’s seat of their lives instead of trying to please everyone else first.
Dr. Renée Hilliard has practiced sexual medicine for over 20 years. She graduated from University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA) with a Bachelor of Science degree in psychobiology/neuroscience. She received her medical degree from University of Michigan Medical School. She is a certified Sex, Love and Relationship coach, receiving her degree from the renowned Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. Her advice appears regularly in Cosmopolitan magazine.
There. That’s my super impressive résumé if you need it. I coach a lot of serious minded professional clients with equally impressive résumés that find their big brains getting in the way of enjoying sex, joy, relaxation and everything else pleasurable. I know mine used to. If that’s you, I can help you stop trying to figure it out and learn to be present, fully surrendered and tuned into the body.
The body is where pleasure is experienced, but many of us have sacrificed sensation to be great thinkers and overachievers. Your body called, it’s lonely and it wants to fully connect with you.
I have been a student for 50 years. I am curious by nature and that curiosity led me to figure out how I could create my own best life first and help others create better lives, more pleasure, deeper intimacy and more loving relationships. That is my true passion and what gives my life purpose.
I’ve developed a coaching system that reliably helps my clients expand the pleasure in their lives.
Having satisfying intimate relationships has been shown time and again not only to improve how long we live, but how happy and meaningful our lives are. That’s huge! Most of us were never taught how to have really pleasurable lives and deeply intimate relationships.
I often see people in relationships growing icy cold toward one another or constantly bickering and not knowing how to fix it. So many people fear that their relationships are headed for disaster or they are doomed to go on feeling dissatisfied forever. I see so many people who struggle to communicate with their partners, especially around intimacy, they often grow resentful and struggle to feel good about themselves.
I can help you put the spark back in your sex life and reconnect you to the joyful, fun, playful, juicy, exciting adventure that your life is meant to be. I have a very playful nature and youthful spirit which so many adults have disconnected from. I’ll help you tap back into yours.
If you’d like to begin, I invite you to book a consultation with me to see if it is a good fit. I want to work with people who are motivated to make a significant change in their lives.
If you are ready to invest in yourself, I would love to help you Get Your Life! 
Working Together
My coaching involves private 1:1 clothes-on sessions held over Zoom. During your coaching consultation, you and I will meet and discuss your challenges. I’ll offer my unique guidance and we’ll decide if moving forward with coaching together is a good fit: Book A Coaching consultation
Throughout your coaching process, I will help you shift beliefs that no longer serve you and remove any resistance or blocks standing in the way of having the life you want and deserve.
I’ll give you simple games and easy hacks to do between sessions to tune in and deepen your connection with your body, relax, rev up your sex drive, communicate more effectively and so much more. Plus, I will offer you valuable accountability to ensure that you reach your goals. The benefits of coaching with me go way beyond the bedroom.
If you already know you want to work together, I have a few options for coaching together you can find here: Menu of Services
