Are you too serious?
Have you ever heard a group of people laughing nearby and found yourself listening in on the joke or even asking “what’s so funny?” You want in on the fun. We all do, we are wired for fun and joy.
Just watch little kids playing. They don’t need an excuse to be happy and have a good time. They can get hours of fun out of playing with a stick or a rock. Give them a stick AND a rock, and they are over the moon! Somewhere we get the message that being an adult means being super serious and responsible.
Yet, we revere comedians. What are they doing but making us laugh? It’s big business, some of the most successful people in our culture are iconic comedians that consistently make us laugh. We love to laugh, it’s wired into our DNA.
I hear from so many of my clients that they see sex as just another chore. It has become mundane, predictable. Many people just have sex in order to fall asleep or because they fear that if they don’t have it, their partner will turn elsewhere for sex. But, the thrill is gone (that is, if it was ever there). Sex is supposed to be fun!
Bring more laughter into your relationship. Show your partner the way you dance when nobody is watching. Make silly sounds and noises, loosen up! Try pretending to be sexy with non sexy food. Get creative. Have a tickle party. Warning: Be careful, you need full consent. No means no with tickling!
Being carefree and fun in the bedroom is Seriously Sexy. My coaching program will help you to connect with your sexuality in a more profound way and experience the joy and freedom in your sexuality that you deserve.
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